

Cheryl's Story
My story starts 40 yrs ago as an infant when I was born
the 5th of five children. My oldest brother caught another brother
with his finger inside me. He was changing my diaper. That was the
beginning of a lifetime of abuse. When I was 5 my Mother began accepting
money from men and sending them to my bedroom as a way to make ends
meet. I was raised to believe that I was put on this earth to satisfy
men no matter how badly it hurt. In time I was having sex with all
the males in the family (I was the only female). Yes that means brothers,
cousins, and uncles as well as paying customers. Upon reaching womanhood
I started getting pregnant and was forced to have illegal abortions
over and over again. I began to take this into my adulthood by becoming
a prostitute until I married at age 21.He was an abusive husband.
He was physically, mentally, and sexually abusive, but because I was
taught to satisfy the man at all costs I allowed him to treat me this
way. I did have 2 more pregnancys but this time carried them both
boys to term. now ages 18 and 14 After 6 yrs of marrage I was sent
to the first of many mental health hospitals. After 10 yrs we divorced
but I lost custody of the boys because I was not mentally stable.
I was all alone again and the abuse continued as I turned to the streets
again, doing and satifying any man that came along. for this is what
I was put on this earth to do. I married again 5 yrs later to another
abusive man that wanted to use me to satify other men. He took money
for my services and got high off of cocaine
while watching me be hurt by these other men and him. This lasted
1yr before he went to jail for assult with a deadly weapon and off
to divorce court I went again, I found myself alone again and returned
to the streets. This went on until I recieved a call from my ex-husband
to come and get my youngest son because he didn't want him any more.
I knew this was my chance to leave the only life I new and raise my
child who I hadn't had for 8 yrs. Just 3 weeks ago I underwent a complete
and radical hysterecomy because of all the damage that was done to
me over the 40 yrs. I am all alone in this adventure and I am trying
each and everyday to raise my child not to hurt any woman and to know
what the word NO means. I live with my past each and everyday I will
never get my childhood back, nor will I ever give myself to a man
without wondering what he wants out of me, or how bad will I hurt
later. Cheryl
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